I'm not a professional in any way and I don't try to analyze people. I just know what works and that is the Lord Jesus Christ. Now that we have that out of the way let me tell you how sad it is to hear so many young women and men speak of marital problems. They don't know how to deal with the problems they are facing. Having children at such a young age and feeling like you don't have a life any longer. You argue more and more often. You start to wonder, do I even love him/her any more. He or she is dragging me down.
You're not the first one to get married so young. You're not the first one to have a child at such a young age and you are not the first one to have marital disagreements. You surely won't be the last. Does this make getting married or having a sexual relationship at a young age ok? Of course not. But what do you do next? How do you handle the situation? The best recommendation I can give you is put your marriage in the hands of Jesus Christ. Build your faith as a couple with the Lord. Take your problems to the Lord in prayer. Wait upon Him, Jesus Christ, to answer your prayers. His timing is not our timing.
[Psalms 27:14 Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD.]
[Psalms 91:2 I will say of the LORD, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust.]
[Nahum 1:7 The LORD is good, a strong hold in the day of trouble; and he knoweth them that trust in him.]
Don't be quick to throw your marriage away but be quick to give it to God and wait for upon him to answer your prayers. Get involved in a local church and begin family prayer at home. Isn't your family worth protecting? Involve your children in church activities and make sure your with your children at church. There's a saying, "THE FAMILY THAT PRAYS TOGETHER STAYS TOGETHER!" Prayer does make a difference. God is your only answer.
You're not the first one to get married so young. You're not the first one to have a child at such a young age and you are not the first one to have marital disagreements. You surely won't be the last. Does this make getting married or having a sexual relationship at a young age ok? Of course not. But what do you do next? How do you handle the situation? The best recommendation I can give you is put your marriage in the hands of Jesus Christ. Build your faith as a couple with the Lord. Take your problems to the Lord in prayer. Wait upon Him, Jesus Christ, to answer your prayers. His timing is not our timing.
[Psalms 27:14 Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD.]
[Psalms 91:2 I will say of the LORD, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust.]
[Nahum 1:7 The LORD is good, a strong hold in the day of trouble; and he knoweth them that trust in him.]
Don't be quick to throw your marriage away but be quick to give it to God and wait for upon him to answer your prayers. Get involved in a local church and begin family prayer at home. Isn't your family worth protecting? Involve your children in church activities and make sure your with your children at church. There's a saying, "THE FAMILY THAT PRAYS TOGETHER STAYS TOGETHER!" Prayer does make a difference. God is your only answer.
